Is getting hit by a wood stick child abuse?

Okay. I am 13. My uncle gets mad at me and hit me with this stick I don`t know what is called is like a wood paddle but smaller. (like the boat paddle) But he hit me in the Butt like 4 times. Is that child abuse. Becasue my friend says is Child Abuse.What should I do to stop him from hitting my ass?
I am a good girl. But when he calls me I go right away. While watching my hands, he yells at me and spanks my whatever.
By that way my family is Asian.

Ouch. It all depends upon what state you live in. (If you live in the US, that is. I’m not certain for other countries.) Chances are, if your friend says it’s illegal there, it’s probably illegal. The only thing you can really do to stop him is call the cops next time. Or, just try threatening to call the cops.

Good luck.
xoxo

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16 Responses to Is getting hit by a wood stick child abuse?

  1. hello says:

    legally, no, it’s not child abuse. being spanked is still legal in every state.

    what should you do? stop misbehaving. start to obey and listen and behave properly.
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  2. sy_core says:

    It is but it isn’t enouigh to have anything seriously done about it

    Unless he’s breaking ribs & such sorts

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  3. Munch says:

    Well if it’s a spanking, I personally believe it’s not child abuse. The ass does not apply to child abuse.

    But I do think 13 is a bit old to be getting spankings.
    How about you stop misbehaving and he won’t have to spank you?
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  4. Shuggie says:

    That is definitely child abuse. You should tell your other family members and contact the authorities immediately and report him
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  5. megan(: says:

    Oh my gosh. Well if it leads a print then yea it is. If not it’s spanking. Which they don’t consider "child abuse" per se. If it hurts you, tell him to stop it! Violance against kids is WRONG! I would tell someone I don’t know.

    good luck hun [=
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  6. Nina<333 says:

    any type of hitting can be considered child abuse. tell your parents.
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  7. ? says:

    if it leaves any kind of marks its child abuse.

    i used to get hit with a belt and it left bruises so the child protection people said it was child abuse.
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  8. Meg M says:

    Ouch. It all depends upon what state you live in. (If you live in the US, that is. I’m not certain for other countries.) Chances are, if your friend says it’s illegal there, it’s probably illegal. The only thing you can really do to stop him is call the cops next time. Or, just try threatening to call the cops.

    Good luck.
    xoxo
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  9. cabina & james (twin sis n bro) says:

    YES BEATINGS SHUD STOP AFTER 13 MY MOTHER BEATS ME WITH A STICK AND IM 15
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  10. Katie says:

    I think that this is child abuse. I would tell someome.
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  11. powershaker says:

    These days, hitting a young person with anything is considered child abuse by the courts. They’d rather you let them get spoiled rotten, so they can lack discipline and end up in jail one day. Looks like you’re alive. I think there’s more to this story than you’re telling us. You probably got your butt spanked, and you probably needed it. Back in the 1950s, a good spanking never hurt a kid. The baby boomers – most of them – ended up getting real careers, serving their country and rarely getting into the trouble that later generations succumbed to. I say it’s a lack of discipline and child rearing.
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  12. Brett says:

    yup, the law is, adults can’t hurt kids. So yeah pretty much.
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  13. KAT says:

    Does he do this for his pleasure or because you are doing something against his wishes? If you have black and blue marks on you then yes you can report him or tell him to Stop or you will call CPS on him. CPS has a toll free number in your phone book..call them and ask, but you better make sure you are NOT lying and that you 2 are not doing it for sexual gratification.
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  14. tiffinie j says:

    No stop being bad and he wouldnt whipp you!
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  15. Don W says:

    Their is a diff between a spanking and a beating back in the 70s teachers could spank us with the type of paddle you describe i think most children today have problems with discipline because of this.
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  16. Maxy says:

    sounds more like a "rod of wisdom", behave
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